I'm not a scientist or a sex therapist. I am, however, quite experienced at
ejaculating and teaching other women to ejaculate. If you believe in learning
from experience, feel free to benefit from mine!
I'm in my 30s, college educated, and I'm not a real blonde. I've been a sex
worker my entire adult life, working most frequently as a stripper. I enjoy
many aspects of sex work and intend to remain in some part of the sex industry
for the rest of my life.
Being in the sex industry hardly makes me a sex expert. However, one thing
I have learned from having so much exposure to the sexuality, not just of
male customers, but of my hundreds of female co-workers (you should hear the
dressing-room talk!), is that no two people are alike. A lot of people probably
fantasize that strippers and porn models get all the sex we want whenever
we want it however we want it, but the fact is, it all comes down to communication
and understanding in the end.
I didn't learn about female ejaculation by being in the sex industry. I learned
about it by being open and playful with my partners. My current partner learned
about it from porn movies, then experimented with it with women who expressed
an interest. Of course, when he met me, I was already interested!
My sexual orientation is pansexual, but I'm primarily hetero and primarily
dominant. Different lovers have inspired different aspects of my sexuality.
In my opinion, having multiple partners doesn't make you a better lover; paying
attention to your partner and learning what both of you like and respond to
is what makes sex good. This doesn't mean that you have to talk it to death,
but it does mean that you can only encourage someone to come by doing what
they like. If you want to experiment with female ejaculation techniques, both
of you should be interested in it, or both of you are going to be more frustrated
than excited.
I'm not at all interested in the debate over whether or not female ejaculation
is "real." If you are concerned about this, I recommend doing a web search
on the subject.
Some women have expressed a concern that information about female ejaculation
puts pressure on women who don't want to ejaculate. I don't think that's a
very good reason to suppress accurate information. If a woman is feeling that
kind of pressure, there are other problems at hand--could be that her partner's
a real jerk. Being able to ejaculate is no more important than being able
to juggle!
Many of the pictures on this web site are video stills from the videos I sell
on the site. Some are video stills from my private collection.
I learned to squirt early in life, partly because I expected to. I believed
in it. However, I did not ejaculate as profusely as you can see me doing in
my videos until I met my current partner. He is quite the squirt aficionado,
and he brought out the wettest in me! Separately, and together, we have explored
female ejaculation with many women. A few have detested it, but most have
loved it!
I am, yes, not just anti-censorship but also pro-pornography. If you are anti-pornography,
the only thing I want to hear from you is what you think sex should be like,
which would be as opposed to what it should NOT be like. I've read tons of
work by anti-pornography feminists, and while they linger on every detail
of horrible rape scenarios and genuinely misogynistic porn (yes, it's out
there, and no, I don't approve of it), they seem to be far too delicate to
explain just what it is they think sex should be. I think they're sincere
but I also think they're, well, kind of obsessed with porn--they seem to distribute
a lot more of it than I do!
I'm doing this site because I think female ejaculation is something women
and men can enjoy knowing more about. If you're a woman and you wonder why
you can't ejaculate, wonder no more--you can. If you're a man and you wonder
why you've never met a woman who ejaculates, it's because you've never done
what it takes to make it happen!
So what are you waiting for? Click somewhere! You know you want to...
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