You best best is to start out with both you and your partner having read the sections on masturbation. You will both learn more quickly if you're aware of what will be going on. So read those sections first, to become acquainted with G-spot stimulation and sexual techniques which are likely to result in female ejaculation.
The following assumes that you have read the sections on masturbation. It is written in the form of instruction to the partner who wishes to help a woman learn to ejaculate.
Start out by bringing your partner to orgasm, or having her bring herself to orgasm, just as in the masturbation sections of this web site. The more you know about what makes your partner come, the more quickly you'll be able to help your partner ejaculate.
If your partner enjoys penetration, start out with the finger or toy penetrative techniques first. This is how the majority of the women I've played with have learned to ejaculate. Keep in mind whether your partner likes strong or gentle stimulation. It's best to start out gently, as a rough touch can result in discomfort for anyone who is unfamiliar with these sensations.
You and your partner will have to communicate in order for you to know when she's feeling the right kind of stimulation. You'll probably have to use both hands, one on the clitoris and one on the G-spot. At first this will seem like quite a feat of sexual athleticism, but if you enjoy the results it will come to you as naturally as all the other techniques you've learned after awhile.
Try stimulating the G-spot by tapping, stroking, or GENTLY pulling on it. You will require your partner's input to figure out which movements result in the proper stimulation.
As described in the sections on masturbation, it truly is this simple. She may ejaculate immediately. If she doesn't, experiment with different techniques; your partner may prefer to lay on her back or side, to have her legs up or down, etc. Because people are both physically and psychologically different from each other, techniques which work on one woman often will not work on another. If you are not in the habit of communicating with your partner during sex, or you feel that everything should occur spontaneously during a sexual encounter, don't expect this to work for either of you. These techniques work best for people who enjoy experimenting.
Don't put pressure on either one of you. Just as other sexual contact usually improves with repeated sessions with each other, so does the kind of contact which leads to female ejaculation. Keep in mind that if you've seen female ejaculation in a porn video, the people in the video may know each other quite a bit better than you can know--they may have worked together dozens of times, or be lovers offscreen as well.
If your partner doesn't like the G-spot stimulation, STOP and go back to what she does like. There's no hurry and you can return to these experiments another time or enjoy each other without female ejaculation.
If your partner HATES it, cut it out! Being able to ejaculate is no more important than being able to juggle. Performance anxiety is known to be anti-aphrodisiac, so if you pressure her, you'll lose.
However, many, many women enjoy this and chances are good that your partner will, too. If she enjoys it and you continue to stimulate her G-spot using these and other stimulation techniques, she WILL ejaculate.
If you have other questions, first review the entire web page. If you don't
find your questions answered on the web page, or you've tried these techniques
and they still aren't working for you, email me personally at:
jenny@jennyspray.com.