Read the entire page before proceeding with any of the techniques.
You may not need to penetrate yourself to ejaculate, although it is certainly easier to learn to stimulate your G-spot directly. For me, this seems to work by using my vaginal muscles to stimulate the erectile tissue of my G-spot. I'm not sure this makes sense, but I do know that I can ejaculate without penetrating myself. In fact, over time it has become EASIER for me to ejaculate via these methods.
As recommended on the previous page, masturbate to orgasm and then start over. Before you come again, as you continue to masturbate, begin flexing your vaginal and/or PC muscles. Attempt to focus on the G-spot as you do so, feeling the muscles stroke and stimulate the area.
When you first try to do this it may seem impossible, and it may not be for you. I know women for whom it has become their preferred method of achieving orgasm, and I am not interested in the opinion of any doctor who has not observed it in several women. If doctors don't know something exists, how can they have studied it?
Several methods of external stimulation will increase the possibility of ejaculation during orgasm:
- Using lubricant on your fingers, sweep them back and forth over your entire vulva. Rub as gently or as deeply as you like. Flex those muscles as you do so, and "push outward" until you ejaculate. The first time I did this I was SURE it was just pee, but it was the same fluid with the same qualities it had every other time I ejaculated. And it felt GOOD!
- Pat or spank your vulva, flexing the muscles and focussing on orgasmic sensations. Flex and release the muscles until you ejaculate.
- In combination with any form of stimulation, internal or external, reach your hand behind your back and press your fingers against or even into your anus. This will increase the pressure against the G-spot and is likely to result in ejaculation.
- If you come across any other techniques, feel free to let me know and I will list them here.